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Travel with children is a whole different ball game. Even if you are a seasoned traveller with all the right tools and tricks you need to re-learn everything to travel with children. Packing is one of those areas in which you need a whole new arsenal of weapons just to get through the trip.
We recently went to Vietnam for 3 weeks (our first major trip with 2 children – a 3 year old and a 3 month old. Read all about it in my post here) but we have also done some short and long trips within New Zealand (some road trips some via aeroplane); and we also went to Europe when our eldest was 18 months old so we have had our fair share of failures and successes here.
My absolute top tip is to travel with as little luggage as possible. You aren’t exactly going to be able to stick to a carry-on with small children BUT you tend to be a lot more forgetful and rushed so the less you have with you the better. If not, you will end up losing things along the way. You can always wash clothes (especially children’s clothes) on the road so don’t bring too much of this sort of thing. Toys and books are necessary but you always need much less than you think you do!
So without further ado here are the things you need to take:
Water steriliser
I am all for helping the environment (except when it comes to reducing my plane travel as I live in New Zealand there isn’t really any other option to get anywhere) and I used to always be disgusted at the number of plastic bottles we went through on a trip to countries without safe drinking water. With a water steriliser there is no longer any wastage and we can get clean water anywhere, anytime which is so crucial with kids – you don’t want to be wandering around trying to find a shop because you have run out of water or be worried about your child wasting or spilling what you do have. As a family you go through so much water too and while you sterilise you can teach your kids about why its important! We have the Classic Steripen and have never had any issues with it.
I also suggest taking a reusable water bottle as you will need it to sterilise your water in and drink from. The Nalgene water bottle is a great size and fit seamlessly with the Classic Steripen.
Travel Car Seat
There are travel car seats on the market for older kids that take up much less space if you are moving around a lot and don’t want to lug carseats around. We took the Bubble Bum Booster Seat for our toddler. These are so useful because they are easier to transport so if you need to jump in a taxi you can. However, you can’t find this sort of thing for infants in a capsule so if you have a small baby and you can afford it – take the best travel capsule on the market: the Doona infant car seat. This thing is AMAZING and saves you having to take a travel stroller also. It also means you can just hop in a taxi anytime you like as you won’t have to lug your carseat around afterwards you can just convert it to a stroller for these occasions!
Family Travel wallet
There is normally one adult in a partnership doing all the organising and now that you have kids you have 4 passports and tickets and other documents to carry around. I always use a family travel wallet to keep all of these things accessible and organised along with our itinerary. Amazon has some great options.
Packing Cells
Really for the same reason as above – to keep you organised. Packing Cells can help to seperate out different items so you can locate them easily (ie. all the togs/items for swimming) and stops you from needing to fully re-pack your bag every time you move hotels. Its a great idea to have a different colour per member of the family if you have kids as you are usually sharing bags with them.
Go Pro
I find when I travel with my children I tend to do a lot more activities where a camera would get damaged and a lot more play in water. A Go Pro is a great idea to take to capture all those moments when you would prefer to keep your phone safe and away from the situation.
Sarong
This seems like a strange item to carry unless you are doing a solely beach holiday but I always carry a sarong with me everywhere when I travel. Its great for covering up your legs or shoulders in temples or staying out of the sun, keeping warm if the wind picks up and drying off if you paddle in some water or mopping away some sweat. It’s also an emergency skirt if you get mud all over you and its so lightweight and easy to pop into your handbag or a daypack. If you are travelling with kids it can be used for all these things for your children – also particularly as an emergency towel or blanket as children always need these.
Travel Toys
You are going to need toys if you are travelling with kids but you don’t want to lug your whole toy box around with you. Mostly new toys with a few old favorites is the best mix of things to take. Make sure almost everything is very small and ideally multi-use ie. stackable cups, a favorite soft toy, little toy cars. The absolute BEST toys for travel I have found are the Melissa and Doug magic painting and Melissa and Doug reusable sticker books.
Tablet
My kids don’t really use a tablet at home but while we are travelling you are gonna bet I get that baby out whenever it can calm them down and keep them happy. Plane trips and restaurants are the key locations where a tablet = bliss. Make sure you research some age-appropriate games and download them before you go. For a young child this could be as simple as a game where you pop bubbles as they float across the screen (yes this game exists).
Travel cot
If your kids need a cot to sleep then you can either stay completely in hotels that will provide one or you can take your own. I would try to avoid taking your own if you are heading on holiday via aeroplane as they are still very bulky. If you have a very young baby I swear by the Koo-di Pop-Up Travel Bassinette. It can be used for sleep in a hotel room but is also handy to have for at the airport, beach, park etc. so baby can have a safe space to lie down.
Child appropriate gear for activities
The best thing I took with me to Vietnam was life jackets for my 2 young children. We were doing a LOT of water based activities and some places provide children’s lifejackets but these were ill-fitting and weren’t going to fit my 3 month old baby! Taking along one that fit really well for my toddler meant she actually wanted to wear it and we always had piece of mind that she wouldn’t slip out. Also for babies you can get special jackets that fit snuggly and tighten under the bum so that they are held in place too. We used a baby lifejacket when we took her on a kayak, rowboat and a speedboat and felt so much more comfortable (what a daredevil baby she is!).
Enjoy making memories!
Erika xx